Tired of listening to music on your lonesome? Facebook might have the answer. About a month ago, the social network built some “connective tissue” between music fans and the services they use to listen.

At its most basic level, Facebook now lets you A) let your friends know what you’re listening to on supported music services, and B) listen to what they are listening to or played earlier.

Facebook music marks a big change to the service, and because Facebook likes to change its layout, features, and privacy settings without letting you know, some casual users are feeling overwhelmed by the change or at the very least out of the loop.

So, what is a music fan to do with the new Facebook? Instead of throwing up your hands and ignoring this important new development, just follow these simple steps, and you’ll soon be listening along with the grizzled techies.

Get Spotify (or MOG, Rhapsody, Rdio, Songza, Slacker, etc.)

As promising as Facebook Music is, it is not without flaws. For starters, it has nothing to do with iTunes, which is what many people who don’t spend all day thinking about digital music still use to listen, and justifiably so.

Instead, you’ll need to try one of these supported Facebook music services, which fall into two categories: on-demand unlimited services (MOG, Spotify, Rdio, Rhapsody) and internet radio services (AudioVroom, Deezer, Earbits, iHeartRadio, Mixcloud, Slacker, Songza).

While a long list of apps connect to Facebook music, Spotify could deliver the most rewarding social music experience in the long run. For one thing, Spotify CEO Daniel Ek appeared alongside Mark Zuckerberg at the F8 conference where Facebook Music was unveiled, and Zuck said he “really loves” the service. The fact that Spotify recently started requiring its users to have a Facebook account, while annoying to some, underscores the tight relationship between the two.

Ultimately, you want to use whatever most of your Facebook friends are using, if anything. To figure that out (and hear what they’ve been listening to):

Check Your Ticker

Facebook's Ticker gives you a real-time update on what your friends are listening to, among other things.

One of the more striking features of Facebook’s recent redesign was the Ticker, a real-time news feed that you can turn off at the bottom of the screen if you find it intrusive or obnoxious, as some do.

If not, it’s a great way to discover stuff serendipitously. Located at the top right hand corner of your Facebook interface, this Ticker feature acts kind of like a mini-Twitter-feed for Facebook. Any time one of your friends does seemingly anything at all, from tagging a photo to liking a status, this Facebook Ticker updates you on it in real-time. As expected, this is where the music your friends are currently listening to gets shared.

If you’re looking for quick song recommendations based on what your friends are playing at approximately that moment, keep your eyes glued to the top right of your screen. You can click the item to listen to the same thing and leave a comment. It’s an easy, if somewhat scattershot approach, because the Ticker moves pretty fast.

Check Their Music Page

Facebook's left column, where you'll find the link to the Music page.

For those seeking a simple overview of their friends’ listening habits, uncluttered by the Ticker’s glut of extraneous information, the Music page is way more helpful. To find your own Music page, go to your own Facebook profile page, then look under the Apps header in the column on the left side.

You can do the same thing with your friends, via their profile pages. Their Music pages collect all their Facebook-connected listening activity in one convenient location. Here, you can peruse (and potentially listen to) all of your friends’ recent songs, as well as a Top Songs list that will aggregates all their listening data into one chart — the Billboard Hot 100 of your Facebook friends.

Know What You’re Getting Yourself Into

Spotify requires listeners to use Facebook to log in, but that doesn’t mean you have to share everything you listen to with your friends. If you do nothing, Spotify and other services continue to post your music listening activity to your profile even if you’re logged out from Facebook. But if you know what you’re doing, you can keep your listening to yourself when you want, and broadcast it when you don’t.

Facebook's app settings allow you to pick who your apps share information with.

This Facebook page contains the privacy settings for all of your Facebook-connected apps. To stop sharing activity from any music service when logged out from Facebook, simply uncheck “Access your data any time.”

Here, you can also decide who — exactly — gets to see what you’re listening to. Under “App Activity Privacy,” a drop down menu can customize the group of people you’re sharing information with, from “Friends,” to “Friends of Friends,” to “Public,” and everything in between.

If you use Spotify, there’s also a “Disconnect from Facebook” option in the service’s Preferences panel. This stops Spotify from sharing your listening with Facebook (perfect for catching up on guilty pleasures), but it also means you can no longer see your Facebook friends within Spotify.

So instead, you might want to uncheck the Spotify preferences box that says “Get personal recommendations by sharing music you play to Facebook’s Open Graph,” which keeps Spotify connected to Facebook without sharing your plays. Whichever way you go, it’s easy to reverse your decision and start sharing to Facebook again.

All Music Services Are Not Created Equal

Each music service interacts with Facebook Music in a different way. Spotify defaults to sharing everything you listen to with Facebook, while Songza requires you to click a “Share” button in order to post a song. If you’re ever in doubt, Facebook’s aforementioned App Settings page tells you exactly what is — and isn’t — being shared, and with whom.